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I went to the desert on a horse with no name, just to get out of the rain.....

I'm an English gentleman, resident of the US for nearly 30 years, intelligent and charming, so I'm told, somewhat eccentric in my attitudes but not in an embarressing or outlandish way.

I am a contradiction, Macho man on one level but Renaissance man on the other, not on different steps, but on the same level and holding hands with both my Jungian genders in balance. Wow, that was confusing!

I love sports, soccer, boxing, golf, scuba, hiking, you know "man stuff" but I equally am infatuated with the Arts, Theater, Ballet, antiques, music, drama, I love cooking, sew if needed, iron, laundry whatever, necessity has made me accomplished in domestic skills, do I feel embarressed by that? Not at all.

I have taught Karate, Equestrian sports, Drama and musical Theater! See where I am going with this? So my sexuality is never in question as I am comfortable in my feminine self as much as my male attributes, Jung knew what he was talking about!

I am a physically imposing guy, broad shoulders and muscled arms (not body built, just hunky) yet am just as at home holding the baby.

One thing I am most definately not is a misogynist!

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageEnglish
Height5' 9" (175 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorDark blonde
Hair LengthNeck length
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureSmile
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special Health Conditions


Has childrenOne
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Have PetsDog, Horse
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Job TitleDepends who'se asking!

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Dramas, Instructional, Movies, Sports, Re-runs
Favorite TV showsGame of Thrones, Friday night lights, Lie to me, Deadliest Catch, Walking Dead, Being Human, Megan Kelly, Flashpoint, Californication, The Tudors, soccer, boxing, Masterpiece Theater, Shameless,
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Drama, Documentary, Thriller
Favorite moviesScent of a woman, The Usual Suspects, Godfather series, The Red Violin, A beautiful life, Any Panther with Peter Sellers, Life of Brian, History of the World part 11, Young Frankenstein (the funniest film EVER), Last Tango, Clint Eastwood (especially his
Music typesCountry, Rock, Pop, Classical, I'm a recording artist, Blues, Jazz, Latin, Soul
Favorite artistsPink Floyd, Fleetwood Mac, Black Eyed Peas, Michael Jackson, Beatles, Stones, The Who, Miles Davis, John Lee Hooker, Muddy Waters, Maria Callas, Kathleen Farrier, the three Tenors (together or separately), this list could run to about three pages.
Reading selectionAncient, Anthology, Biography, Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, Instructional, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Reference, Poetry, Religious, Satire, Science fiction
Favorite bookstoo many and too diverse to put on paper,
Idea of funsame response as above!!!!
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Sports, Reading, Learning, Music, TV, Movies, Family, Dining, Photography, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Cars, Camping, Fishing, Motorcycles, Hunting


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Sense of humorObscure
My great timeHanging out with friends, Partying, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading a book, TV, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryI have managed to achieve the majority of my ambitions and pursuits, however, there are countless activities and experiences I would like to repeat. I still want to navigate the Amazon in a small craft, visit Japan (not Tokyo) and the Galapagos, among other places.


Political viewsI don't like politics
Attend religious servicesOn holidays
Goal in lifeI have achieved manyof my life challenges, if I write down these achievements you will consider me a blowhard and boastful yet many are serious steps on life's path, I achieved when quite young in many cases. If I said I had no goals these days, that would be innacurate, but my attitudes have changed. If I said I wanted to just help people, that would not be wholly accurate as I did that throughout my life, it is perhaps more about finding the answers that would allow me to help people move forward in their lives and relationships, but again that comes across as me being a cross between Mother Theresa and Doctor Phill (whoever he is!), I suppose I could say build a relationship that is warm and loving, mentally stimulating and full of laughter, passion and physical equanimity, but that is very egocentric and shallow in the telling. I suppose I am just conflicted.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness
Look for in a partnerI prefer slim builds, but a woman with curves and breasts has never turned me off either. I adore a quiet, passive lady who can manipulate me with a glance, a smile, a flash of thigh or just the nape of her neck. But I love the brash bold woman who erases the antipathy of a first date and charges in, making me smile and all around her, with her ardour and openess, she likes what she sees and makes no pretext or pretension.

I have always adored the feminine elements of mankind, they alway are more amusing, conversational and interesting then men, hence all my life my closest friends have been women. I am still close with 4 of my 5 ex fiancees, (thats a whole book), I am the shoulder to cry on, the person for solace and answers and unbiased comment.
Don't confuse friendship with sex dear reader, I may have slept with many of them but always our friendship survived and developed. I am a monogomist in relationships, but that is a huge conversation !!!!!

So why did I go with the physical part first you ask? By now you have gathered I am a pretty eccentric but intelligent guy, however there is a strong physicality about me and I love that human contact thing, not just a meeting of minds, but soul and bodies too, hopefully.

I am a debator not an arguer, I dislike confrontations unless based on an intellectual discourse. I believe that the emotions and the soul of a relationship grow and work in symbiosis between a man and a woman, you are in tune and your physical relationship enjoys that mental communication that needs no voice.

You know what I mean, that first kiss, touch or whisper that makes your tummy tremble, the hair on your arms stand and your breath go shallow as your eyes meet..............That's not from speech it is a connection that exists or not, some say love others lust, whichever, we seek it as long as we are able, when it is absent from our lives.
On the first dateThat depends on what my date would like to do. I am as open to suggestion as much as I can suggest, but, it is a mutually arrived at liaison, so, how can I make a recipe, when the ingredients are, as yet, unknown..........